The Destruction of the Western family System | Part 1

The destruction of the Western family system Part 1

The woman has the responsibility of the household affairs and this responsibility has three aspects. With these three responsibilities, when the woman took the fourth responsibility of the job, not only the first three responsibilities were neglected but also her caste was crushed. Her condition became like that of the woman who climbed the mountain. The air coming down from the height and the jug full of water is held in both arms and held on one head.

Describing this tragic situation, Naeem Siddiqui in his book "Women in Conflict" writes:

The natural consequence of bringing a woman into the industry is the destruction of domestic life. Little by little her old hobby was stolen from her and now the "home" is empty of interest and the woman herself is in a state of aimlessness and dissatisfaction. I'm suffering. When the house is so empty that there is no work to be done in it and there is no life in it, then what happens except that men and women withdraw from it. Thus the institution that had existed for ten thousand years was destroyed in one generation. "

The woman's employment has played a vital role in shaping the life of the family. When he started trying, he had to face a very painful situation. Things got better, but he had a double responsibility. Thanks to her job, she lost her family, mother, children, husband, wife and elderly disabled people. The sick and the old have no sympathy for the bereaved, the family system is in shambles.

All the bonds of love and affection in the family have been broken and man has lost the peace that only the family can provide. I can't stand it for long. The devastation that has befallen the family system by employing women and moving out of the house cannot be remedied.

During work, in offices, factories, for the purpose of women standing side by side with men everywhere, anarchy and anarchy increased in men and a flood of obscenity and indecency came in the society. Due to the collapse of the family system and the competition of women with men, men lost their sense of security and responsibility. Now they are no longer the economic breadwinner of women. He took the place of their sponsorship, thanks to which the woman got freedom but the responsibility increased. In the modern satanic system, when a woman started to struggle to get out of the house to earn a living and to become self-sufficient, the worst effect was on the family relationship and family environment. When she is earning her own living, where is the obedience of her husband? Because of this, marriage has become a sport and divorce has become a norm.

In her own book named 'Forgotten Families' , Judy Hayman writes:

"The number of working women is growing rapidly in the developing world as well. The trend of migration from rural to urban areas is gaining momentum. They are happening and there is no welfare for the children. New generations are roaming freely without parents and are on the verge of destruction. The old system of collectivism and family is gone. "

Not just the children, but the elders of the family are waiting for the end of life in the cold rooms of the old house. The children do not even have time for weekly meetings, the elderly wait months for a reply from their loved ones. A society in which children do not have time to take care of the elderly and talk to them and relatives do not have time is a destructive society.

We see and hear in some societies the manifestations of defeat, disruption and disorder, and the disobedience of parents. The father grew old, his bones became weak, and he needed children to help him. But he does not find any of them except one of them comes and to save him from the old man he set up for the old and the helpless.

The institution (Darulaman) is handed over. But Islam, keeping the relationship of parents sacred, has kept paradise and success in their service and pleasure. They are unconditionally entitled to the property of their children.

The last president of the Soviet Union, Mikhail Gorbachev, in his book "Perestroika" has established a chapter on women called "Status of Women". And it is clearly stated that:

"In our Western society, women were evicted from their homes, and as a result of their eviction, we have certainly received some economic benefits and some increase in production, because both men and women are working. Are working, but despite the increase in production, the inevitable result is that our family system is destroyed. And the losses we have to bear as a result of the destruction of this family system, the losses outweigh the benefits. Are what we got as a result of this increase. So I'm starting a movement in my country called "Perestroika."

In the West, women's emancipation and economic stability have completely destroyed the family system. Or both parents do not know. The idea of ​​the sacred relationship of sister and brother is a distant thing.

A woman has always played an important role in her life but a woman in the West cannot achieve anything even by sacrificing her love. What, its very existence is in danger. European woman is in dire straits. It is very difficult for her to play the role of wife and working woman at the same time. Circumstances require high quality performance in everything, or nothing at all. There will be a very small number of women who will play a full role in domestic affairs and fulfill their job requirements.

As a result of avoiding marital responsibilities, the basic unit of society, the family system, deteriorated. The book "The Antisocial Family" mapped out this situation as follows:

It is particularly noteworthy that the massive breakdown of the family as a basic unit of society has led to increasing instability in family relationships, which is reflected in the growing trend of homosexuality and divorce.