Guiding Principles for a Happy Marriage Life Part 3 | Islamic Marriage Life

 

Guiding Principles for a Happy Marriage Life Part 3 | Islamic Marriage Life

Prophetic strategy for women

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in a hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): 

If the prayer is fivefold, then it is good, and obedience is good.

“When a wife observes the five daily prayers and fasts in Ramadan, defends her honor and chastity, and serves her husband, she is allowed to enter Paradise through any gate she wishes.”

In this hadith, he describes the four duties of a woman: 

1-Performing obligatory prayers, 

2-Making obligatory fasts, 

3-Protecting one's honor and dignity, 

4-Obedience and submission to her husband.

In this hadith, he gives women the great joyful news that all the gates of Paradise will open for them, but in return he does not demand a long and extensive act of worship, but only the performance of duties, including prayer and fasting. Obligatory acts of worship and protection of one's chastity (including veiling in particular) and the last important thing is the service of the husband, and in the service of the husband comes all the work that the wife does in her house, which includes childbirth. , training, kitchen management, hygiene management, etc.

Surprisingly, work that women consider to be purely mundane or formal, and which is performed as a routine or habit, and sometimes under duress, is seen by the "religion of Islam" as a great act of worship in exchange for such a great act of worship. Good news, Allahu Akbar! 

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is approaching, which means the holiday season is in full swing. 

An important task in this regard is the duty of women to organize Thanksgiving. Allah Almighty gave them the nature to make great sacrifices, so it is very important that after a sacrifice or absorption in service, it is very important that they do not rely on complaints while maintaining their reward. Try and keep your house happy and peaceful, otherwise Ragini's eternal complaint is a spark that can set the whole house on fire, so thanksgiving should be a special routine. 

Men's duties 

Temperament

One of the general instructions of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) regarding the rights of wives is to consider the temperament of a woman and expect her to expect according to that temperament. Scientists say that it is very important to understand three things about women, this will give an idea of ​​the temperament of women: 

Encouragement 

1- Protection: 

The wife has high hopes and expectations for him.

In her subconscious, she worries that now I have no one in this world except my husband, which means that she has high expectations from her husband.

That is why she is afraid of Sutan, because she is afraid that he will become an obstacle to her protection, therefore the husband should take special care that if he wants to marry again, he must do it, and not make the other artificial. threats of marriage, it can cause harm. 

2- Honor: 

The wife wants respect for herself, her children and her parents. If she is not respected, she considers herself a servant even after doing a little work. Is an.

3- Encouragement: 

The encouragement of the wife is required, but scholars say: A woman in any form, mother, sister, daughter or wife, she is in dire need of encouragement, this is her instinct. There is a desire that cannot be quenched, and if she fails to hear encouraging phrases in a legitimate way, she can sometimes turn to unfair encouragement, hence her complete preoccupation with reading, cleanliness, food and beauty and good character.